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are there any poly girls in this tribe? i'm looking to meet other girls around my age (23) in the area... i also started a polyunder35 tribe, and we will be having a get together most likely on 7/24 and it would be great to meet you, if you're out there!
polyunder35.tribe.net
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Re: poly girls
Thu, July 15, 2004 - 7:41 PMgeeze, how old do I feel....I'm 36
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Mon, July 19, 2004 - 11:08 AMwendee, don't feel old, "old" is relative anyways! i know a lot of "older" people got offended at the tribe i created, because of the age thing. they somehow thought it was an insult to them, that i wanted to find other poly people that i can relate to and have things in common with, and most typically those are people around my age. there are exceptions, of course (i have a 50 year old friend that parties like he's 20), but the age does kinda help narrow things down a bit. anyway, not saying you feel the same as the other people who were bitching... but yea, keep in mind i started the tribe with MY needs in mind, not a 36 year old, or 45 year old, etc.
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Re: poly girls
Fri, July 16, 2004 - 9:28 AMLorien!
You're so cute..
Women that are involved in polyamorous relationships. Relationships that have existing loving relationships outside of the one they are commited in.
Is that a quick and accurate description?
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Re: poly girls
Sat, July 17, 2004 - 12:45 AMHello,
I'm 23 too. Hmmm... I guess I'm semi-poly (girls only). I was checking out your profile and saw that you were in the 'arabian horses' tribe. Check out my arab Zima in my profile. -
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Mon, July 19, 2004 - 11:09 AMwhat a beautiful horse! and you're very pretty too! :) -
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Re: poly girls
Tue, December 21, 2004 - 7:36 AMI'm poly....and I think people can be yummy at any age!
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Re: poly girls
Fri, December 31, 2004 - 8:22 PMWell there's little old me,
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Mon, January 3, 2005 - 6:45 PMMy love and I (of 13 years) are exploring poly-ness but at the moment I am better at sharing than gifting him to others.
I think I have become more self-confident and sexually open as I entered my mid-thirties. I think going through this process at 25 was not intellectually possible for me.
This might be a great topic to share over wine one night with those over 35 sharing what we know with those 35 and under...I wish I had the ability to have an open, frank conversation with women when I was younger. Might have gotten me here sooner.
Glimmer
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Re: poly girls
Mon, January 3, 2005 - 9:39 PMas a poly newbie, i like the idea of getting together with other poly women to share ideas and thoughts. i think i'm going to have a lot of questions in the upcoming year.
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Tue, January 4, 2005 - 8:49 AMI am with you, let's get together and talk.
Frankly polys, semi-polys, newbies, swingers, and bi-curious come in many ages, shapes, color, and sizes. We don't need the constraints of under X-age or over X-age to share the emotional highs and lows, the logistics, the intellectual nuances, and the joy/passion that comes from this type of lifestyle. I would have loved to talk with strong women who participate in this type of lifestyle when I was younger. I would have loved to known that this is not just for "Those Types". That people can lead healthy, happy lives when they are poly. If nothing else--knowledge breeds tolerance. (Ok, sorry for sermon! :) ) -
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Tue, January 4, 2005 - 2:22 PMI am sorry if I created the impression of separatism of those over 35 vs those younger - that was not my intent. In the last year I have met a woman who is barely 20 and damn, she knows who she is...powerful, bi-, playful and embracing life with a can-do attitude. She has embraced only those cultural norms that serve her and rejected the rest. She is truely happy.
In my experience, as I get older, I have a better understanding of who I am and I am getting better at communicating that. I am ready to share what I know but also interested in hearing how I may continue to grow and become a more powerful woman as I move through my 40s and 50s and beyond. At the moment, I am getting in touch with my inner goddess who is a warrior while my fascade is a meek pleaser.
I can't help but think it gets better the older and wiser you get but I too recognized that a cultural shift has occurred and those younger than me are making great strides in claiming self-confidence and being strong, independent women. We can all be the teachers and pupils in this lesson called life. -
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Thu, January 27, 2005 - 2:53 PMI absolutely adore you Glimmer!
Your words are why I love you so... -
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Mon, January 31, 2005 - 9:26 PMYaay, Glimmer.! I am so proud of you. Ok, I'm not poly. But I respect the hell out of your decision, Glimmer, and the decisions others choose to be poly and to explore the possiblities. Fuck yes for knowing who you are and to be willing to learn more. Power of knowledge and even more so.. POWER OF KNOWLEDGE TO STRONG WOMEN - YAAAY! :)
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